Dealing with two

I have recently found out that BOTH my boys have Asperger's Syndrome. The oldest is 10 and the youngest is 4. It amazes me at how alike and different they are, and I don't just mean as siblings. They share the same diagnoses, but they prove to me everyday at just how different children can be in the same diagnoses. Now granted, they are 6 1/2 years apart, but my oldest functions at a higher scale on the Asperger's spectrum. I am grateful that I know what is going on in their heads and that I am reaching out to get them the help they need.